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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He didn't say he didn't love you, just that he wasn't attracted to you. attraction isn't something that is entirely within someone's control. He can't just choose to be attracted to someone who is obese. Especially since fitness and self care is something he values.[/quote]

This. My DH gained 15 lbs during our 7 year marriage. He now has a double chin and looks unattractive or less attractive. Of course I still love him but I would prefer him at his wedding day weight. I stayed the same weight through 2 kids. I feel I'm chubby (though BMI is normal) and I prefer my looks when I used to be 10 lbs lighter during my 20s. Let's not kid ourselves that fat is attractive. Do you really want to hear the lie that you look gorgeous? I'd rather get an honest answer. [/quote]

Yes. My husband gained about thirty and balded. I am still thin and look very attractive. I still love him but When we are intimate I fantasize about men with hot bodies. You can't let yourself go and demand that your partner still finds you hot. It is bait and switch.[/quote]

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