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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]it makes sense why men marry again quickly. We plan their social lives, plan family events, have their children, decorate their homes, plan vacations, send thank you notes, schedule the cleaning ladies and home maintenance, buy the children clothing and sign them up for school and activities, buy birthday gifts, plan parties... I could go on![/quote]

And you're wrong. You give a crap about planning family events. Men simply may not. I don't. My wife bought my clothes for 15 years. I had no clue where to get the brand of boxers she used to supply me until it occurred to me to look. But I haven't been dating to find a new supplier of boxer shorts (which I think about) or a home decorator (which you think about). I date to find another life partner and sex partner.

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Nope, for the majority of men she is spot on. [/quote]

Another man here. Nope, dead wrong. 
How can so many women be so clueless about what men want in a relationship?
Let me spell it out for you. It is exactly like PP said: life partner and sex partner.
That is it! Understand? We do NOT care about the family events, home decorations, and thank you notes!
[b]All of that is just women "performing" for the other women around them. [/b]
None of the men give a crap about any of that stuff.[/quote]

You realize men perform too, right?  I mean why not have a crappy lawn?  Why not just let the grass grow and never cut it ever?   Because when friends and family come over they will think you suck!  Not sure you even manage your lawn (I hire the lawn guy for my husband ) but this is one example.

Fwiw, not planning family events will result in angry in-laws and we know how that goes.  Same with not sending thank you notes.  [/quote]

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