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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The type of home life and parenting that is required for kids with ODD to be successful is often the type that parents just don't want to do and I don't blame them.

A very small world and consistent routine for years on end is what can be very helpful. This can mean no sports, no classes, no extras on the weekends, same school, same camp (if needed) every year.  Weekends have to have the exact same routine.  Not a lot of outings and if there are they must be the same ones all the time.

Even when parents manage to do that, what can happen is that their child's behavior stabilizes because they child's anxiety has been greatly reduced and they feel "in control".  It's of course an artificial control bc it's the parents scheduling that makes the child's life so rigid.  But parents see their child stable and assume he/she is now ready to do all the things NT peers can and it's not the case. There is always the option of introducing something new in the schedule but the adjustment period can be long. [/quote]

Is there ANY support for this at all? Severely restricting an "ODD" teenager like this seems like a recipe for severe rebellion.[/quote]

This has to start early and can't just suddenly start in teenage years. Or it could, but it would be really tough for the first few months.

Remember that a child with ODD is likely to have other comorbid issues as already pointed out. They are not NT kids and the parenting for these kids has to be different. Vastly different. [/quote]

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