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Reply to "Would you admit you have a child on the first date?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]"Admit"???? As in, confess to a crime? I would absolutely tell him the first time I meet him. We come as a package deal, and I'm proud of my kids. [/quote] Oh dear, rereading that, it sounds horrible! I love my child more than anything, I just want this guy to get to know me for me first. Does that make sense?[/quote] I don't really get it - if you having a kid would be a deal-breaker, why is it better for him to find out later rather than sooner? I agree with whoever said drop it in to conversation but don't make a big deal out of it. Me, I can't imagine being in the dating world and not talking about my kids. And I would take it as a red flag if I ever met a guy who had kids and didn't mention it quickly, at least by 2nd date (although I'd probably ask on 1st date, because it's very relevant to the bigger picture).[/quote]
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