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[quote=Anonymous]Lies are like mice and ants, there is never just one.

I know it is hard and you are so close to being married and have probably spent some money on the wedding. Consider it an investment in your future if you have to give up that money. Don't worry about how it will look or what will people think. Think about 10yrs into a marriage with him and the lies he will have concocted and you won't even know about. Financial issues in a marriage, especially in a new marriage will kill this marriage early. You could spend time investigating to see what else is going on but he is just going to get better at hiding things. Sure you could get a credit report and go over it line by line but it is just going to piss you off more. You know that if he lied about owning a home there are other financial issues going on.

If you need more evidence to convince yourself that you are doing the right thing by dumping him then sure go through all the things folks have suggested. If you intend to stay with him no matter what then end this conversation and just marry him. Staying around long term and postponing the wedding just gives him opportunity to hid more things and get better at it and convince you that it was just the one big honking lie.

Think about your future, your potential children's future and what your life is going to be like in 5 or 10 yrs from now with him.[/quote]

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