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[quote=Anonymous]I was on OP's side in my first post, but after rereading and updates, I came to a conclusion that she is prone to drama, and that even shows in her being all hurt about being a "third wheel." That is her perception and I maintain that going on about one and a half days "slight" 10 years ago is not mature at all. But, in light of her new posts, one question that comes to mind, is what is wrong with her BIL? He seems to be holding his whole family emotional hostages. If OP's words are true, "it is about his son, and not OP's drama."  Now, I am reading it, "it's all about me, BIL and I love drama."His parents are paying for everything, his brother has turned against his wife and kids for his brother, his parents are trying to keep peace and while they are paying for everything, the have no say in their own son and DIL and grand kids coming to the event they are paying for? Any parents would have told him to shut up and act like a man and stop being immature, but they don't, they told it to their DIL and the other son. As a typical resident DCUM doctor, which I am not...LOL, I am thinking BIL has NPD and has made it all about himself, convinced everybody that he is the victim and SIL and brother are his tormentors. And his own parents and brother have always done all to please him(parents paying for trips for a grown man?) and as usual with NPD there is a that one victim that Narcissist has decided to use as a scapegoat, while all others see none of it and think him a victim. And it might be that SIL wanted attention too, and spoke about it, and well, Narcissist can't have that kind of person around.[/quote]

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