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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your kids will end up hating you because dh will tell them someday. Work with your DH. This guy might be attractive, but believe me he has his faults.[/quote]

Yep, I did.  Wife cheated, when kids asked why I told them.  When they were younger I didn't say much but that their mom liked someone better than me.  When they got older I told them.  No point in hiding it, it's the truth.  Don't do stuff if you're not prepared for the consequences and the the truth.  [/quote]

You're sick. My DH cheated on me in no way in HELL would I burden my children with that.  Jesus, what a selfish prick you are. You are a real piece of shit.[/quote]

NP.  Boy, this is an emotional angry response.  You really wish you could tell them don't you?  Therapy, lady. [/quote]

Misdirected anger at it's finest. PP thinks she's protecting her kids, but in reality she's trying to protect herself if she can keep up the picture of perfection she won't have to deal with the fact her husband IS a cheater.
Yes is he hasn't and won't stop.

How do I know this? My dad cheated on my mom.  She didn't tell us, no she was like you  and pretended.  I found out anyway.

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Follow along please. The woman is divorced. Don't cha think she realized he wouldn't stop when she decided to divorce him?

Keep up![/quote]

I'm the guy that originally posted I told my kids.  When they were younger I didn't tell them, just that mommy didn't love me anymore.  Probably wrong.

When they got older I told them.  It was the truth, I'm an honest person and try not to lie.  They asked the real reason and I told them.  That is the fact, she's a cheater.

I moved on but they hated their step-mom and I had to tell them the reason I moved on.  It is what it is.  Protecting kids from reality doesn't help them when they get older.  That's why we have whiny college kids and young adults.  Most have a hard time facing the truth and a lot of times it's brutal and unforgiving.  The world is a shitty place and people are shitty to you more often than not, that's life.  Anyways, their opinion of their step-mom has changed so that's one positive outcome.

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So you threw your kids' mom under the bus to make them like their step mom more. You still f*cking suck. [/quote]

Um no...he just told them the truth.  His ex wife was a whore and broke up
The marriage.  That's the truth.[/quote]

Agree. He did the right thing. Cheaters understandably have a hard time with this, lol. [/quote]

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