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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Whichever one he said?  If he didn't pick, let the living spouse pick, as she probably knew her role.  If both wives are deceased, let the kids pick, as either is "appropriate."[/quote]

If I'm the living spouse, he's being buried with me.

In a different cemetery.

Across town.

Yeah I'm petty that way. Lol[/quote]

It's not petty it's accurate. I don't know anyone that went with the deceased first wife though I'm sure it happens. Maybe if the 2nd marriage was really bad.
My dad was married to my mom for 25 years. His ashes are with his 2nd wife which I don't have a problem with. Of course I was happy for his happiness, and have my own life. Obviously some on here are sadly miserable. Either scorned first wives, or adult children with problems.[/quote]

I agreed with the posters who said it would be good for the kids to be able to visit their parents together.

But your post makes me wonder about the chances that those full adult children with families of their own to care about will spend tons of time visiting their parents. Some people do visit graves religiously but I know many who don't. My mother hasn't visited her mother's grave once in 20+ years. And I keep my dad in my heart. 20+ years later I have not visited his gravesite. [/quote]

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