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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You are already living with this man and he has been involved with in your boys lives - helping to support them, taking them places, etc. And you are in love with him. He sounds like a really good guy.

Maybe you two can make it official without a big wedding ceremony.  Just something quiet, private.  Maybe a ceremony on the beach where the boys are free to participate or watch from a distance.

Make it clear to them that you get married will not affect their relationship with their dad.  Their dad will always be an important part of their life and you encourage and respect that.  He's a good guy, too, even though you could not remain married to him.[/quote]

Exchanging rings while teenagers pout and glare from a grassy knoll?  Lol!  Bad idea.  This isn't about what kind of wedding.  This is about forcing your children to live with someone they don't want to live with.[/quote]

Aren't they already living with him?  I suggested a low key wedding where the boys could participate as much or as little as they want to.  I think they should be there so that there is no denial that the wedding took place but they don't have to pretend to be super thrilled about it in front of a crowd of spectators.  It is understandable that they have mixed emotions about their mom remarrying. But this is Mom's decision and they need to respect it.[/quote]

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