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[quote=Anonymous]Hey, everyone likes attention and I'm sure getting interest from this guy feels fun and exhilarating - that's fine, it's human nature. However, it's gone (way) too far - this is no longer harmless flirting in passing, you're openly discussing (moreover, and an important distinction: fantasizing about...because this IS total fantasy that you're indulging) your hypothetical future affair. It's time to draw a hard line and cut this off, before it goes any farther and things that you regret and can never undo happen. Have a direct conversation with him: make it clear in no uncertain terms that this proposition and all discussion of it are DONE, that you feel foolish about the lapse in judgment you've had, and that from here on out you will be discussing work matters only. Be firm and then stick to that.

Shut it down now and you can start the process of moving on from this crush, and look back in a few years and feel proud of yourself. Keep playing with fire and you (and other people) will get burned. Not worth it[/quote]

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