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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I've been married over 10 years. Early 40s, young kids, great husband.  I've never been unfaithful to him but have had a couple crushes on other men throughout the years.  Life is a grind and hard in the sense that it has gotten a little boring and predictable.

The latest crush is for a man who is 20 years older, a mentor to me, with whom I've Worked closely for a long time.  The crush has been going strong for 1.5 years, though in the past few months it has died down some.  He's married in a open relationship (totally in love with his wife, but they've both had long love affairs with others and don't believe in monogamy).  The crush and I have talked about our attraction to one another.  I've explained that my marriage is pure and that I can't compromise that.  He has talked at length about his relationship  history and relationships both within and outside his marriage.  He's never had an affair with a colleague before or someone with such a big age spread.

We've got two work trips coming up, so there is an opportunity to get physical.  I don't want to mess up my family, my integrity, my karma, my career.  But I want to be close to this man so badly and think and fantasize about him constantly.

What should I do?  How do I resist?  Tell me how little I mean to him and how much I mean to my husband and kids.
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Why don't you fuggin' wacky-packs spend your time actually working at work instead of all this other bullshit?  Do they seriously pay you to waste your time this way?[/quote]

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