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Reply to "Ladies - Does actively pursuing a man you like work? Anyone got their hubby this way?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I flirted with and pursued my husband. He adores and loves me and treats me like a queen every day. He is shy and would not have pursued me had I not made it very obviously known that I was into him. [/quote] I think the above approach works. It is not the same as "chasing" and bending over backwards. It's basically what I did. Keep in mind many men have fragile egos -- they are less like to ask out a woman if there is a chance they will be turned down. They want a sure thing - ( I am not advocating being sexually "easy") BTW- I am struggling with how to relay this life lesson to college age daughter. Anyone been there done that?[/quote] I don't think that's true. Many men want a prize. There's a cognitive bias that makes people think that something they invest a lot of time in has a high value. [/quote]
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