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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Meh. My DH has strengths. I have other strengths. We each take the lead in areas that we (a) feel passionately about and (b) have developed expertise in. For example, he loves to cook, and can make a meal out of all the crap left in the fridge at the end of the week. I have an advanced degree in finance and handle all the micro and macro budget and finance issues. My DH told me early in our marriage that he didn't want to make all the decisions. He does that at work. I think we divide all that labor up fairly evenly.[/quote] We are that way too. I am submissive to him when it's an area that he is strong in. He is more submissive to me in areas that I am strong in. It works well. It's not healthy to always be barking orders and correcting someone under the guise that you're just "strong willed." He's the cook in our relationship and while sometimes his choices aren't necessarily my top choices, I smile and appreciate it because he makes an effort and it saves me work. If I'm not 100% satisfied, it doesn't need to be mentioned if I'm still pretty happy with his work. Nobody's perfect. Not even me :D[/quote]
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