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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think the unknown factor here is what kind of kids you have. I keep thinking of a certain friends' kids. The kids are independent and I really think they would be fine with parents who were not often around, as long as their basic needs were met and they have transportation to activities. They are exceptionally independent and emotionally straightforward. I have one kid sort of like that, and one who's not. My one who is not couldn't cope with the separation: he needs us and no nanny will do it.[/quote]

What kid is "fine with parents who were not often around"..as long as their basic needs were met.???!! Do you honestly think this is how children feel?? Jesus, every kid needs their parents whether they act like or not. They may not show you or tell you straight up that they need you around, but they do. And when the shit hits the fan and their "parents aren't around", who or what do you think they will turn to? Kids who don't get enough attention sometimes make stupid decisions in order to GET that attention from you. I don't think I need to spell out what that means.

What is more important to you? Money or your kids? Your kids need you, period.[/quote]

I would never be interested in a job like what OP is considering, but OP, FWIW, I would only take it if my DH scaled back a lot.  Two heavy-travel jobs is very bad for kids, marriage, and family life.[/quote]

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