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[quote=Anonymous]OP,  you should secretly set your phone on video record, prop it up so he's in view & then print out these comments &  show him them all to him (with the exception of this one, or he'll know you're recording him, lol).

His reaction will be very, very telling.

The reason I suggest setting up a camera is because you need to see not only his body language, but when people are trying to get out of accepting blame, they'll say whatever they can, even if it's not true (or they'll embellish the truth, etc).  Also, when people lie, they do everything in their power to try to convince you that they never said that (even if they just said it moments earlier) or try to convince you that you're hearing things out you're just crazy (a favorite word men love to call women when they get caught, that our psycho).

I guarantee you that his reaction today after being caught off guard with all of these comments placing the blame on him will be much different, than if you bring it up again let's say next week & he's had time to process things & come up with different excuses than he said today.
That's when you'll know.

Id show him the comments today, secretly record what he says, then drop it.  Next week bring it up again & after having a week to think about ways to get out of being the fall guy, he'll say completely different things than he said today & you can compare the two.  If he lies & says different things next week, you know his parents were NEVER to blame, it was all him.

You'll see, compare the two & he'll find a way to take the blame off of him (who it should be on) because today, he won't have time to think of any other excuse, as you're catching him off guard (he still thinks he's home free since you hate his parents for this, but give him a week & he'll come up with some excuse why it wasnt his fault... maybe he'll say that YOU'RE to blame for paying it next, lol).[/quote]

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