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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My post was not a complaint. It is advice to other unhappy men and women (like OP) suffering in a low sex marriage.
But since you missed my advice, I will restate it:

Be crystal clear with your partner that having a normal sexlife is a dealbreaker for you.
This is not a threat, not an ultimatum, just you being open and honest.
No normal person with a normal sex drive can be happy if stuck in a low sex marriage. You are not a "bad parent" to have normal sexual desires, it is your partner who is defective.
Once you've communicated this fact, and are certain your partner understands in no uncertain terms [u]this is a dealbreaker[/u] yet he/she insists on selfishly ignoring the relationship, then you have a defacto Open Marriage and can proceed to meet your normal sexual needs elsewhere.[/quote]

"defacto Open Marriage."

When you advise one to cheat your entire message is disregarded as nonsense.  [/quote]

It's not cheating. Non-monogamy is a [u]lifestyle choice[/u].
In the same way that one partner might - unilaterally - choose a (near) celibate lifestyle, the other partner might choose non-monogamy.
Totally fair.[/quote]

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