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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Have very low body fat (be fit). I'm not going to use the word skinny or thin because there are all sorts of connotations around that. But honestly, you will stand out for being very fit. Only 1/10 women in their 30s who are single are super fit. So, even if your face is only a 6/7 if you have a smokin body you'll be at the top. Same for guys. Working out and having broad shoulders and no belly puts you in a small group.[/quote]
Ugly face with a hot body, still makes you ugly.[/quote]

I think PPs point was that you can't change your face (I mean, you can try to improve your skin, but unless you do plastic surgery, your face is yours), but you do have some control over your body.

I think her point was to focus on the things you can control and that have an impact.  I hate the superficial nature of this entire thread, but I do agree with her that being fit (by "fit" I mean having muscle definition in your arms, etc.) stands out because even a lot of 20-somethings (of both sexes) aren't fit.

I think PP was trying to legitimately answer OP's question.  As you age, you can do botox and all of the snake-oil creams or fad treatments or even roll the die and get plastic surgery, but a safer and more sure-fire way to increase your "hotness" is to get fit, to get muscle tone, to strength train.  It does stand out.

And I don't think a "6/7" counts as "ugly."  I think PP is saying that even if you have an average face, a smokin body will stand out (for both men and women).

But again, I hate the superficial nature of the this thread.

As an aside, I've never been blonde, but I've always had guys hit on me.  The studies I've read suggest that blondes get special treatment (i.e., people assume helplessness and go out of their way to help), not that they are necessarily seen as more objectively attractive.[/quote]

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