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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Same boat.  DH here and I am not trying to be distant with my wife but I find I just can't help it.  I am not trying to penalize her or anything like that, I find I just don't really want to be around her that much.  She is fine and we don't fight or anything, but the sense of her not caring about my feelings has put me over the edge (multiple months w/o sex).  Before the critics chime in, I have talked with her about what she needs, what I can do, how I feel it is affecting our relationship and zero change.  I think that what most of the people that criticize these posts don't really get is that it isn't about the sex, its about having a partner who doesn't want to engage as a spouse or care about your feelings.  I don't need sex all the time, but when I come to you as a husband and you don't care its kind of hard not to eventually disengage; especially when I tell you that is what is happening.

Side note, I agree with all the previous posters about just doing your own stuff, working out, and generally just focusing on what you want.  Be the best you that you can be and if she doesn't want that there is really nothing you can do but live in misery/affair/divorce.  At this point there just isn't enough spark left for me to care about it........I think that even if she would come to me and want sex I would just be meh about it at best.  [/quote]

I am a wife and I follow the path you suggest. The sad thing is that my H hasn't objected to me doing my own thing. I guess he's just happy that I have stopped pestering him for affection.[/quote]

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