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[quote=Anonymous]I think, as a spouse, part of my job is to make DH's life easier.  I also expect the same attitude from him.  I don't see anything in your post that says you and DH share that philosophy and, honestly, I think that without that mindset, raising children with be a burden.  The little things really make my day now, like putting gas in my car or taking care of an errand I needed to do.

As for our schedule, each person gets one "freebie" night per week to do what they want -- happy hour, an exercise class, whatever. More than that requires a conversation and the OK from the other parent.   Weekends are generally spent together as a family or together with friends.  However, it isn't unusual for me to go to brunch or DH to golf.   As a general rule, we take turns getting up with the kids on weekends, but it depends on the morning and how much of a handful the kids are being.

Good luck when you have two kids --- if you think it is bad now, you have no idea how little free time exists when there are as many children as there are adults.  That is a HUGE adjustment.  [/quote]

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