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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. 
The new boyfriend has asked her to marry. He is in agriculture it isn't easy to move a farm.
She would be closer to her family if she moved. 
I think it is highly unlikely that her ex would take her up on the offer to keep the kids
Her ex is having fun with the control. 
My reasons for suggesting this are because I think she and her kids would be better off. 
She dated her ex since early college and has had no other serious boyfriend before this new one. 
I think that what could happen, is that by the time her youngest is 18, she will not have as many choices of suitable men, and could be lonely forever. Why? Because of this controlling fool she married. 
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Good God woman.  I'm really starting to think that this is not for a friend, but it's you trying to make us tell you it's ok to leave your kids behind for a man.  Maybe you should if you'll feel like they held you back from "true love" your whole life.  You are a shitty mother and human being,. but go ahead merry the man of your dreams.[/quote]

Yeah, agree that this is someone asking "for a friend".

OP, if you ditch your kids for your new guy, the kids will remember for the rest of their lives. FYI.

Get counseling and figure out how to set boundaries around your ex without screwing over your kids. [/quote]

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