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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]She needs to sort this out in court.  How far is the farm from here?[/quote]

You have to fly. They met on a vacation. New BF was close to her all winter, flying in every week renting a room in a house. He can't leave his work for any extended time. 
Agree that court would make the most sense. Just more expensive. Ex would look bad in court. He is one of those types who speaks slowly and quietly to force everyone to stop what they are doing to listen to him. He has spent little time with the kids. They don't have many belongings at his house.
I feel like this is a case where my friend needs to put on her life vest before putting one on the kids. [/quote]

Something doesn't smell right.  I grew up on a farm, my brothers still farm.  They rarely, rarely go on vacations and when they do, it's rarely places they'd meet single women.  And, if they did meet a woman on vacation they were interested in dating, they certainly couldn't afford to fly out every week - they couldn't afford it financially or timewise.  Farming isn't just a full time job, it's also a lifestyle.

And, your comment about putting on her life vest first?  WTF!  You clearly don't understand the metaphor.  A new relationship is nice to have, not a necessity.[/quote]

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