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SIL and her husband also eloped. We had the same justice of the peace that married them. I don't respond because I felt that it should be DH to handle his family. [/quote]

I agree with the person who said that in 3 threads in 2 days, you have gotten many comments about how immature you are and that you are not reacting or responding in an appropriate manner.  You continue to make excuses for immature behavior rather than trying to figure out how to grow up and react more maturely.

You need to find a mentor of some sort who can teach you more mature responses to the events and situations in your life.  Right now, you continue to behave like a teenager and you should be learning to cope with life situations better.  I would recommend you look for a mature family member who handles personal interactions well, or a clergy, an older more respectable friend, or even a professional to help you learn more mature responses to life situations or you will continue to live a life where everyday activities such as sharing photos, attending family events, or just routine interactions with your in-laws will create drama.  That is clearly not healthy for you and you need to get a handle on it before you child gets too old, otherwise, your child will also have dysfunctional personal relationships because they learn them from you.[/quote]

I'm already in therapy. Having DH handle his family is what my therapist suggested.[b] [/b]He said if she said something on my Facebook that I needed to just delete her.[b] Etc.[/quote]

Well I'm guessing this is how you go to today's situation.  You got permission from your therapist to delete SIL if she said something.  So you took offense to something that was clearly inoffensive and deleted her.  That's not cool, op.  You really, really, really need to grow up.[/quote]

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