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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think wanting to look good for your partner is different from feeling pressure to do it. I do keep my hair long because he likes it. It's not that I think he won't love me if I cut it off, but he really loves it, and I think considering your partner's preferences is important in a relationship. I don't cook food for him that he doesn't like for the same reason.

I do need to lose weight. Health issues have helped add about 15 lbs. I will keep us both in mind as I make the effort to lose it. [/quote]

Are you saying that you WOULD/COULD maintain your looks, but CHOOSE not to because of pressure from partner?
what the heck!

Seems to me that somebody who is in fact taking good care of themselves would NEVER feel pressure from partner.
I pay all my bills on time, therefore I never feel pressure from bill collectors.
Should I resent the fact that, if I stopped paying my bills, I might then feel such pressure?

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I think you misread what I said. I was making the distinction between wanting to do something to make your partner happy and needing to do something because you're afraid your partner will leave you. [/quote]

But why make this distinction?
If it's something you want to do, and are already doing it, then just keep doing it![/quote]

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