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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I want to stay / get back in shape for myself. It's a matter of self respect and maintaining standards. I am currently 7 months PP and still carrying 5 extra lbs compared to my normal weight, but I'll worry about it when I quit nursing (which I'm planning to do when DB turns 1). I don't obsess about it, but I do plan to have more children and I'm 33, so it's not going to get any easier to lose weight if I start letting it creep up.[/quote]

I never understood what a woman's weight or looks had to do with her self respect. So if a woman gains 5-10 pounds, she does not respect herself? So if she gets old and gets wrinkles and a turkey neck she does not respect herself? So all the chubby, older women out there do not respect themselves?

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Not caring about one's appearance, lack of grooming, letting oneself "go" are all signs of depression...  so yeah, in some cases it means that the person has little self respect.[/quote]

A woman gaining a few pounds or getting wrinkles as they age is not "letting oneself go".   :roll:   That's called reality.  [b]Shooting yourself up with botox and starving yourself [/b]to chase that fountain of youth does not equal self-respect.

Also having depression does not equal having little self respect, it is an actual disease and often comes with a chemical imbalance within that can trigger it.

Letting oneself go, as can happen when someone is experiencing emotional problems such as depression, would be characterized as no longer showering, staying in pajamas all day everyday, not combing their hair, that sort of thing.  That is letting oneself go, not the NORMAL aging process.

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lol, this is exactly what takes place[/quote]

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