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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes I feel the same. I had my second baby 10 months ago and I'm having a harder time dropping the weight and it's sooo frustrating. My husband doesn't say anything mean but I know he'd like to have the old me back. He's supportive of me going to work out and eating healthier. More than anything, the pressure is coming from myself. I had always been lean and slim and I just don't feel like myself and don't like what I see. I'm 5'9" and used to hover between 130-140. After the first baby I dropped all the weight but when I went back to work (1 year off), I got a car, I started going out for daily coffee breaks with colleagues and 10 lbs crept back on. Then I got pregnant again and gained a bunch of weight and now I'm losing it but still sitting at 160 and I hate it. My BMI is in the healthy range, but scree that because I just don't like what I see. [/quote] You'll get there because your self motivated. At 5'9" target 140-145, 130 is too thin and men like a little flesh on the bones.[/quote] I am 5'8" and I am stick thin at 135. So yeah, 140-145 seems more like it, PP. [/quote]
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