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[quote=Anonymous]I think it's crazy for anyone to dismiss any person's desires for independence and it means nothing about not loving your spouse or doubting your marriage. Individuals are allowed to own property individually, and everyone should, for fuck's sake. And I am floored that anyone thinks it's automatic that all retirement counts are split 50/50. Do you have any idea how many mothers I have known you had to give up that 50/50 split in order to obtain something else in the divorce? Something really important? Like a college fund for their kid, or COBRA payments for a year, or something? Why intentionally be the weaker party? I've seen judges with my own two fucking eyes and ears tell a stay at home mom of 16 years that she will get alimony for 3 years and then is on her own. [/quote]
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