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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If DIL is so upset with MIL/you going, don't go. Get your room/flight refunded as much as possible. Bow out gracefully. I bet there will be another trip where you will be invited to go if you handle this misunderstanding correctly. Next time you should make plans directly with DIL. JMHO.[/quote] Why should she be graceful, while paying the whole trip? While selfish brats are getting a free incredible trip. Thank you, we'd love to go, would have been a perfect answer. I can not see what OP did wrong at all. My FIL often paid for trips, everybody knew it was because he wanted to spend time with his kids and grand kids, and we all gave him all the credit he deserved.[/quote] Because creating a positive long term relationship with DIL is more important that $ or going on the trip. Being gracious is never the wrong choice. [/quote]
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