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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My aunt addresses my Christmas card to Mr. and Mrs. Larlo Smith. I don't even get my own first name. So if anyone should be butthurt it should be me, not you. Get over it.[/quote] Well, this was the old fashioned "correct" way of doing things. That time is long gone, but I don't waste time worrying about it. And I'm the person who had to teach my parents to still write me checks in my name. Some people just don't care and/or do care and want everything to be so old fashioned "correct" and/or want to be passive aggressive. I find it easier to just ignore all of them and do my own thing. They can do theirs.[/quote] I still address envelopes that way because it is correct. [b]It's Mr. and Mrs. John C. Doe. That is the correct way.[/b] If you want to look like you were raised by illiterate imbeciles with no understanding of etiquette, then by all means continue to address correspondence however you choose.[/quote] That is not the correct way in 21st century. That is correct way for mysogynist a** holes who stick to some old fashioned way. You might be literate, but you are an imbecile. Should we forbid women to vote as well? Hence fort I will address my letters to Mrs and Mr. Jane Doe.[/quote] Baby, get off the wine. Or get laid. Or something, you weren't raised correctly, it's not your fault, no one blames you- but get with the program.[/quote] You get off your old fashioned idiotic way and go lick some floors for some men. I have no faults in this situation, you do. It is sad and pathetic to be subersvient to men in this day and age. I was raised in ways you can't even imagine, and not here, in old blue blood European family, I was raised to tell people like you that you live a sad, misguided existence. I have manners like you never heard of. But, I treat idiots like you as you should be treated. Why don't you get a tooth brush and scrub your floors because your husband told you to? I am a woman, hear me roar, I let you whimper and beg.[/quote] He likes it when I whimper and beg?. [/quote] It is not the correct way in 2016. Women are now allowed to have their OWN identity!!!!! I address letters Mrs. and Mr. Lara and Larlo Smith. If they have different last names, I always put the woman first. Welcome to the 21st century! [/quote] Amazingly, I can have my own identity and share a name with my husband and children. I'm sorry you can't manage that.[/quote]
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