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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This thread makes me furious. Furious. You will never see this thread written by a man. You will never see a man expressing guilt that his wife is the default parent and does drop off, pick up, and everything in between. [/quote] And I'd like to add that if a man ever posted anything like this, no one would ever tell him he was a shitty dad. No one would ever tell him he was acting indulgent. These are the totally unfair pressures we put on moms. Unless mom is doing it all she's a shitty mom. If mom punts to dad, she's a shitty mom. Shesvindulgent. We shouldn't coddle her mental illness. You know what OP? Do what you can do and step up where you can and when you feel like it. That's how dads do it, and no one judges them for it. [/quote]
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