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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, you need CBT, not a regular therapist and maybe not even whatever meds he/she put you on. I was in your shoes. You will spin your wheels for years in regular therapy. You can get better, but you won't get better doing what you're doing now. At my worst, I couldn't be alone with my kids and would walk over to the pantry overwhelmed at the thought of how to make them dinner. Don't listen to the angry posters telling you what a shit mom you are. You're not. You sound really aware of what's going on, and that will benefit you in treatment. [/quote] I don't see anyone calling her a shit mom. Rather, I see people encouraging her to be present and contribute as opposed to throwing in the towel. And fwiw, even parents who aren't suffering from depression feel overwhelmed at the the thought of preparing dinner. [/quote]
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