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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There is 1 poster insisting she was never cheated on but still KNOWS her particular narrative about the wife who adopted her DH's child with his Thai girlfriend/ONS/whatever is correct and EVERYONE else is wrong, and has written maybe 10 posts about that, correcting everyone and anyone else.

Other people can have other opinions without you being a one-woman committee to shut it down. You don't have kindness at all in how you look at the women, the adopted kid.  No one said that the wife was by definition a saint, so stop with your straw man nonsense.  You don't know more than anyone, especially since, snerk snerk snerk, you've never been the recipient of this hurt.  Totally plausible by the way!

Women who basically judge the wronged wife and the other woman as satanic are scumbags.  You're not too smart to get hurt, and you're not a good person by constantly insinuating the OW's baby did not mean much to her.  You're bad news.[/quote]
I don't think you understand what it's like to post on an anonymous website.  I am the person who theorized about the motives of the wife.  I never said or insisted I was never cheated on.  I think you confuse a discussion with someone trying to shut other people down - how would you even do that online?

Yes, someone did in fact say the wife was a saint.

Who is judging anyone as satanic? It's perfectly normal to care about the survival of your marriage more than the abstract wellbeing of your husband's mistress' baby.  That doesn't make anyone satanic, that's human. It is also perfectly normal that that other people's children don't mean much to you - there is no expectation or entitlement to the wife's love and care toward a love child. How can it be otherwise? Why would a woman be expected to put interests of a random baby above her own, her children's or her family? These things come first.  [/quote]

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