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There is nothing wrong with Choice #2. That is called "insisting your husband honor his commitment to you and to forsake all others."

Shouldn't be impossible to enforce if the other woman and her kid are in Thailand, either.[/quote]

There is nothing wrong with either of these choices.  Just that none of them is perfect, good, or pain-free.

Incidentally, the marriage builders guy (Dr Harley, I believe) recommends that husbands whose infidelity produced a child must sever all ties (except required child support) with the other woman and her child if they want to commit to their marriage.  He thinks that a betrayed wife cannot heal and a fractured marriage cannot survive if it continues to be  stressed by the ongoing contact with the love child and necessarily its mother.  It is not a perfect choice or even a good one, but what choices there are good? His philosophy is that if men want to preserve their marriage, they must put the marriage ahead of everything, including the child born outside of its bounds. [/quote]

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