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Nope. Her actions were driven by kindness for another human other than herself.

No.

Sorry to say, some people just do the right thing. You obviously are devoid of that experience in your life.

The right thing to do would have been for the husband to keep his dick in his pants.  No one in their right mind say adopting the child into the family is the right thing to do.  The wife has no obligations whatsoever toward that child, and insisting that she does is silly.

she did not have to worry about the Thai woman or the Thai child. Men are too lazy to put their own closes in the hamper, he certainly is not spending tons of time visiting an AP or child overseas.

She isn't worried about the woman or the child. She is worried about her own family.  Men come in all kinds of ways.

Men don't leave wives for AP or even for children from the OW. The kindness was from the wife. the 13 yo will see how much his/her mom would sacrifice for the life of another.  Teen are the age they learn the parents make mistakes too. I have many friends/family where the dad has a child out of wedlock and the 10-22 yo from the 1st marriage is fine... mostly it's after divorce, but really ... men can't just get a vasectomy or use protection. It shows how immature they really are. Half-siblings in the US are more a norm than an exception.[/quote]

No, half-sibling love children adopted into the family in the US are not the norm.  Half-siblings from prior or next marriages may be, but adopting children born outside the marriage is quite uncommon.

Yes, [b]some men do leave wives and children for the AP[/b].  Consult the biography of Wendi Deng please.

You have no idea what the 13-year old would learn from this.  It may be the idea of sacrifice. It may be that her mom is a doormat who doesn't have the strength to leave a man who has no integrity. It may be that men are not to be trusted and women shouldn't expect much from them.  It may be that infidelity is the norm and women should just suck it up. It may be that her father is not worthy of respect. It may be that you can make a mistake but be excused from paying for its consequences. The concept of sacrifice is generally alien to teenagers.

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5% and 60% of those end up divorced. 3%  pretty pathetic odds... please consult science.

Being kind is not being a doormat. I am sorry that you hate wives, most likely you are an OW who is little cra-cra with the holiday season, but obviously you have a slanted view of reality. I am sorry life has handed you a bad hand. You should take control of you life and get away from your AP.

The 13 yo will learn her father is imperfect and either he will make it up to her by being kind and present or he will prove to her that he is a selfish ass. Only time will tell, kids are very forgiving, if action change. If not, she won't be the 1st person to learn she has a selfish parent.

Teens don't recognize sacrifice as a teen but they do as a adult. She will love her mom for her kindness.
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