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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I really hope the couple of cheating guys who have posted a lot on this thread - including the one that insists that cheating has nothing to do with kids - and the woman who is so proud of her 7 year relationship with her AP have read this last page of posts.[/quote]
I don't expect him to care at all, if he does.[/quote]

He's a narc and doesn't think this applies to him at all.  They only care about themselves and not about anyone else (and specially not the spouse).

Some of these narratives are very personal and really impactful in helping to understand the impact of cheating on spouses.   [/quote] You're right. Sad as these stories are, I don't care. Those are your stories, not mine. You know I could have come on here a couple years ago as some whining husband complaining about how my wife cut me off a couple years before and refuses to discuss it and rest assured none of you would have any sympathy for me. You are also right that it doesn't apply to me. I'm not some guy who stepped out even though he had an active sex life with his wife at home. I stepped out for the sole reason that I wasn't having sex. Now I am and it's really just that simple. When I wasn't having sex my otherwise good marriage was very unhappy now it's much better. It's certainly not an ideal situation but at least it's tolerable.

I find it interesting the statistics people posted on here about 20% or whatever percentage you choose of marriages being sexless yet not a single woman on here who is criticize me has admitted that she also denies sex to her husband. Yet you want to attack me for my solution because you're in such denial that it could happen to you.[/quote]

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