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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The question you all should focus on is:

If my career is my priority,
 WHO will care for the child?

Not, "I'll settle for whoever shows up."[/quote]

Okay, crazy-haiku-daycare-hater, simmer down. I have never heard anyone (male or female) say they'll  settle  for whoever shows up.  I have seen loving and concerned parents work hard to find and pay for high-quality childcare. Enough with the strawman arguments already.

The question you should focus on is:

WHY am I so desperate to believe that other people's children are damaged if their parents don't make the same decisions I do?

Also, WHY must I insert random line breaks into my sentences?

Think about it. [/quote]
Been thinking about it, probably longer than you've been living. More importantly than just thinking about it, I've been carefully observing it. How your early childhood impacts who you become. If you believe your first three years are irrelevant, so be it. My decades of observations tell me otherwise.

During my research, I spent days observing "high quality" infant care centers in the DC area. One was BH on K St. One of my colleagues burst out in tears when we left, as those poor babies received no love from those poorly compensated caregivers. And the place cost a fortune! Someone is making out, but it isn't the workers, and it certainly isn't the babies either. We saw for ourselves what you can't see during your quickie visits.
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Okeydokey. You're right, you are clearly the only one with the ability to identify high-quality daycare. The rest of us just shove our kid into the nearest storage locker.   :roll:  So why aren't you out there trying to improve access to quality care? Or... Could it be that your interest is less in the welfare of children and more in validating your own choices?

You are ridiculous. Stop trying to terrorize FTMs. There is good quality care out there, and a person with wit and patience can find it.

I know more kids who have been damage by their smothering SAHMs or kin care than by daycare!  Having said that, most kids with SAHMs do just fine, and most kids in daycare do just fine. Quit pretending your way is the only way. [/quote]

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