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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think that, except in very limited examples, white people should not adopt transracially.  However well meaning, they usually are not doing a very good job in helping the kids form a cultural identity. Going to culture camp once a year, and putting some artwork in the kid's room just aren't enough.[/quote]

[b]So the kids would be better off wherever they were before adoption[/b]?

I know a number of white families that have adopted kids of other races, and the kids are absolutely thriving.[/quote]

In some cases, yes they would. Also, in many places, there are local families willing and able to adopt the children, but Americans (agencies and adoptive parents) are more lucrative avenues for orphanages and corrupt local officials. and there are many ways to thrive. Lots of transracial adoptees get great grades and are polite, high achievers. It doesn't mean they feel happy, safe or whole.[/quote]

Read Sundays NYT magazine about Korean orphans who are returning to Korea to live as adults and in many cases reunite with their birth mothers.  On one hand it is great that they can do this. On the other hand, how sad for the parents who raised them only to be told thanks for the great life and education. We no longer need you[/quote]

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