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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]Delusional are women like you, who want to ignore the overwhelming majority case (wife lost interest, husband cheats) to talk about the tiny fractional minority case (man has regular sex at home yet still cheats).

Nobody claimed it NEVER happens. But it’s like pointing at the broken clock during the 1 minute (ok, 2) per day that it’s right and claiming that is the norm.
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JUST ONCE, cite a [u]reputable[/u] source for this.  Just one widely recognized, reputable source that has conducted any kind of study that concluded the "the overwhelming majority" of spouses who cheat were in sexless marriages.  I dare you.[/quote]I'm a reputable source.  Serial cheater for over a decade and in that time, I've met hundreds of cheaters and very few of them were what we call, cake eaters.  I've frequented discussion boards where cheaters hang out and I've even attended events where we got together.  That's as reputable as you will get.  You won't find any "studies."  Cheaters don't participate in studies. [/quote]

You are a troll.  
 
Here's a stat that blows up your theory - about 10% of marriages are sexless but the infidelity rate is between 30-60%.  I would bet my life savings its far closer to the higher end of that range.  Having done the business travel and convention circuit for years, the infidelity rate for professionally successful and charismatic men has to be near 100% and not all of them are sex starved at home.

So while I agree with you that an active sex life will minimize your chances of getting cheated on and depriving your spouse of sex will assure you will get cheated on, there is obviously some overlap between those who have some sex life at home and those who are cheating.

Just as I believe there are some men who would be faithful but cheated (justifiably) when deprived at home, I believe the women on here who say they were sexually generous but their husband still cheated.  Monogamy is freakin' hard, and temptation is out there if you are a man with options.[/quote]

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