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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]We meet during work hours. He has an apartment so no real expense(?). We worked together years before we began the affair.[/quote]

Is that supposed to make it better?  Wait till your sons find out there mom is a liar and cheater - your relationship will never be the same.  I hope your DH finds out and exposes your AP as well.[/quote]

My DH was doing this with some married woman.  They were bold like this.  It wasn’t 7 years, but it was several.  They meticulously covered tracks and it was in the middle of his work day twice per month.  She didn’t work so it was at her house when kids and husband were at school.

It destroyed our family.  I found one tiny slip up and then it all came out- what they had been doing.  Neither thought they’d ever get caught so they didn’t contemplate what the spouses would do.

“Get the f@ck out!” was my response.  I think he banked I’m me being such a faithful spouse and a devoted mother that I would ever ask for a divorce.  He is a shell of himself—cried, begged, pleaded.

I told her spouse.  No idea what happened.  I don’t give a sh@t.  But, her spouse needed to know since they were having unprotected sex.

You destroy families.  Both of you.[/quote]

Just curious - what was the slip?[/quote]

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