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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sure, why not be happy for them. How is it affecting you?[/quote]

This happened to me, and it was upsetting to me as well.

It's because I think I had to mourn the loss of what I thought my relationship with my Dad would be.  And what his relationship with his grandchildren would be.

It took me a while to figure that the 20-30 years I envisioned I had with him would look totally different, and honestly, not what was I was hoping for.

You eventually come to terms with it, buts its ok to mourn/grieve for the loss of the relationship you thought you would have[/quote]

You need to stop playing games and have a relationship with your Dad and stop blaming others.  Lots of parents are not good grandparents.  I thought mine would be great and involved and they suck.  That's life.  It's not their job to raise my kids, it's mine.  It would be nice if they'd help in an emergency but they don't, so we figure it out.

Or, maybe wonder why your mom kept you from your dad and maybe you don't know the entire story.[/quote]

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