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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Don’t take that advice last thing you want to be like is aggressive that is a red flag. Talk to your coach and recruiting director they should know if they are not honest than that is a major major red flag for the program. College coaches have a lack of respect for certain people in this community and speak volumes about the aggressive nature of one in particular. [/quote]

Disagree.   I would wait til 7/5 and then ask where I am on their recruiting chart.  If you can’t get a straight answer, drop the school from consideration. [/quote]

Thanks for all this advice. I just can't believe the coach would have said, repeatedly, you are our number one recruit, if they didn't mean it. I know where she is on the chart and I believe she really is at the top. I am pretty sure she didn't pass the pre-read and coach just doesn't want to tell her. I just wish she would have so she could get it over with and move on with her life. It probably means dropping the sport. She has one other offer from a decent school, but not one she would go to without the sport. She just didn't cast her net that wide. Moved very far down the road with two D1s, lost her first choice last fall becauser of freshman year grades, and the second one, the final spot came down to her and one other player and she lost. It's just been so frustrating and such a roller coaster. But she loves this NESCAC, was told she was THE one, so she wasn't that worried, except for the grades. Looks like this one is a no, too, though and she is devastated. We are thinking about a PG year and reaching back out to coaches who were obviously so interested in her to see if another year of academics would help. Thanks again![/quote]

If they are really a top target, give the coach time to figure it out.  Sometimes it takes a while, maybe they need more feedback on what you will need to do to qualify, etc. They will likely try to find a way. [/quote]

Thanks again to everybody for the advice here. I thought I'd pop back in with an update. Unfortunately, my instinct was correct, coach didn't call because she just felt too badly to deliver the news. They spoke this morning and coach said she was absolutely the player she wanted the most but that not even her slot would be enough to get her in. She works so hard and is a solid student at her extremely rigorous private, but a B student just isn't strong enough for this school. She's devastated, and I'm feeling very sad for her, but hopefully she'll be happy where she lands. She does have one offer right now from a Centennial league school which I think would be a nice option. Thanks again. [/quote]

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