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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you man died in a car accident today, would you go to the funeral?[/quote] I don't know. I wouldn't want to do anything to compound his wife's grief. I'd have to think hard about that.[/quote] What do you mean "compound his wife's grief"? Would you try to stake a claim to his assets? Show up to his funeral? Ask her for your rent money? If he died, it would just be...over. Done. There really would be nothing left for you. You do get that, right?[/quote] Huh? Of course I wouldn't stake a claim to his assets. I don't know why you'd even think that? Someone asked if I would go to the funeral and I just said I'm not sure. [/quote] The mourners at his funeral would be her circle of friends/family/support not your's. You do understand that, don't you?[/quote] Not necessarily. A funeral is for saying goodbye to someone you care about, too. The deceased has old and new friends, colleagues, and family that may wish to attend to acknowledge his passing. That's why the obituary is published in the paper. [/quote] Generally the family is publishing the obituary in the newspaper to inform old *friends*, *colleagues*, *neighbors*, *church members* and the like that the death has happened. I think it is pretty obvious that illicit mistresses are not included in the invite....and that the family is not going out of their way to notify such persons of the death. That does not mean that mistresses do not have a right to their grief. It is just that theirs is a more private grief, just like the relationship that they had with the decedent was private not public. [/quote] I have attended many funerals. Frankly, people often do not ask someone there what their relation to the deceased is. Anyone who happens upon the obituary notice could attend, and unless they appeared homeless or caused a disruption, people let them be (unless it involved a famous person). [/quote]
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