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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I can see how someone from a family with no mental disorders or deadweight males may think a dude with a good job, education, fun dates, SAHM mom history, and says he wants a family would work out.

Most people revert back to their mothers and fathers good or bad behaviors once kids arrive. [/quote]

You can see that because most women value education and fun dates more than they value mental load. There are billions of studies discussing how married women are carrying the an unfair amount of household responsibilities, and intelligent educated women are choosing over and over again to focus on fun dates, high income and education in choosing a DH.

Why don't they marry 18 year olds and take their word on how these 18 year olds intend to be doctors, engineers, lawyers, scientist etc? Why wait until a man is clearly on the "right" path before agreeing to marry him? When stuff  matters, young women don't take men's word: they want evidence such as already in grad school at some Ivy League school etc. Why is a man's word that he go 50-50 enough when it comes to mental load while there is ample evidence that he will not?
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I am someone who did prioritize the 50/50 thing, and it paid off! I think there’s some truth in your assessment, but also, there just aren’t enough men to go around like that. So women rightly look for other things. [/quote]

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