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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] No, that’s not how babysitters work. They don’t sit on call waiting for wedding invitations for their clients. So someone with a babysitter for wedding A might very well not have a babysitter for wedding B.[/quote] It was an either/or proposition. If a babysitter is available for a weekend during which 2 events are held, the availability of the babysitter would not matter depending on the event you choose. [quote=Anonymous] And? Someone might like the bride and groom better for wedding A. Would you rather be told “I don’t want to spend $1000 on your wedding but I was really happy to spend $1000 on Sally?”. Is that “honesty” really what you want?[/quote] Why would you need to be dishonest about telling people you cannot afford to attend an adults-only wedding? "I cannot afford wedding A; the childcare costs are not in our budget. I can afford wedding B; it allows children thus no childcare expenses." If someone criticizes you for genuinely not being able to afford something they are planning, they are in the wrong. [/quote]
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