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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Brandon replied to some comment on his Instagram post that this wasn’t “sudden”. That they (together and separately) have been in therapy for YEARS. It’s interesting that she presents their divorce as her being blindsided and in shock. I wonder what that’s all about?[/quote] There is probably a lot of shame and embarrassment, and a sense of failure. So believing and saying it was sudden can be a way to deflect some responsibility. Also..you can know you have serious issues and have them for a long time but still believe you will not divorce. In fact having them for a long time may actually feed a complacency where you believe your partner will bear it long term as you plan to. I believe she was shocked. And there may have been something new and shocking even within the backdrop of long term struggles. [/quote]
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