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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]^We had sex 3-4 times per month.  So NO- it’s not because a spouse does not have sex.

This man had a seriously messed up childhood with a severe alcoholic as a father, serially cheated and gave his mom STDs. When they divorced his mom checked out completely as a mother.  Turned cold since he was a perfectionist and doing well she thought he was fine.[/quote]3-4 times a month?  Oh you are such a saint.  Bless you.[/quote]

I meant week.[/quote]

Much more than your average married couple.  3-4/times per week.  AP was twice per month.[/quote]

Yes so it sounds like cheating is a cheater’s issue, not spouse’s fault like we hear on here all the time.  How a cheater handles himself in difficult situations is based on choices he makes.  Those choices are what defines him and his character.  I feel for you and your situation. [/quote]Nope.  If she decides to end all marital sex, it's not her fault at all if her H can't accept that his sex life has unexpectedly ended also.  Again, this is a rare situation where a man is having regular sex at home, but still decides to step out.[/quote]

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