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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote] Once again, I'm not going into detail about my marriage or my reasons for staying. It's enough for you to know that I am and it's best for everyone. I'm not ignoring the fact that I got away with my AP on Mother's day. What about it? The way I treat women is no model for any child who has no business concerning themselves with adult sexual situations any more than I would involve them in knowing such things. TBC[/quote]

You really should stop posting, because you make yourself sound worse every time you do.  Any sympathy that anyone might have had for your sexless marriage is totally destroyed by your utter lack of respect for your DW and family.  Meeting your AP on Mother’s Day adds a huge degree of callousness, for you and your AP, and your DW will definitely think so when she finds out.   You keep talking about children not concerning themselves with adult sexual situations, but anyone with two brain cells knows an affair doesn’t come down to sex for kids - it’s about the betrayal to their other parent and them.  All you have to do is read other threads on this forum to understand the long-term damage affairs do to kids and their relationship with their cheating parent.  Based on your views about children you have written here, I’m guessing your relationship with your kids is not good anyway.  Your affair is not best for everyone, it’s best for you only.  At least be honest with yourself.[/quote]I should stop posting?  This thread would have ended 30 pages ago if I wasn't posting.  All I've tried to do is answer the original question posed by the OP, then honestly answer every question posted to me after that.  I'm not looking for, or expecting any sympathy.  I know the type of women who post here and I got exactly what I expected.  And it's funny, not a single one of you has admitted that you also deny sex to your husbands (while many admitted as much on other threads) while the number who do is probably quite high.

"Based on your views about children you have written here, I’m guessing your relationship with your kids is not good anyway."  I've lost track of how many times I've said this.  I've never said a damn thing about having any children, or not.  I've tried to keep children, puppies, and kittens out of this discussion because I know where it goes.  Way off track.[/quote]

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