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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]VDA v BRYC first weekend of ECNL. I would imagine BRYC will win easily In almost all age groups. Will be a tough year for VDA [/quote] The good news with VDA this year is that all those girls will be able to have an opportunity to play high school. VDA is not a good program - and will not be a good program for a long time to come. A good program has the best girls - and just enough of them. A good program is always competitive. A good program has ready access to fields. A good program has coaches who aren't shady. A good program is transparent with its finances. A good program is fun. Most importantly, a good program makes the best kids elite. If your kid is not in the top half of her DA / ECNL roster - seriously consider having them play with their local soccer club. With all the money / time you both save - take your daughter to private training, let her play futsal in the winter and make sure she plays and excels at a second sport. Then let her tryout again - is she in the top half of the team? If not, repeat - or just move on. Soccer rosters with 20 - 30 girls on DA or ECNL (now with limited play via EDP) is not a good formula for success. They are senseless. Only you can decide if she's good enough - don't let the tryout do that. Those whom you trust (her former youth coaches), her high school coach, older peers that she likes - or would like to emulate - they will tell you whether she is good enough and what she should expect from a program. Case in point...can you imagine driving to New Jersey and getting the snot beaten out of you by an elite team - and not playing. Or, can you imagine the elite team from where-the-heck-ever coming down here and beating the snot out of your daughters team - and she gets little or no game time? It's a train wreck. It's the worst thing you can do - and you can end up in a much worse place with her development than you can imagine. All of the DA programs - and their 10 month of training did not yield stronger teams this year. In fact, you can look at the early scrimmages this year and they are getting decimated (Washington Spirit lost every game at every age group this past weekend). DA / ECNL is for the elite player. If your daughter is not in the top half of the roster - RUN SOMEWHERE ELSE and reinvest your money in making sure she has a great high school experience. If she isn't an elite player - she's a "tackling dummy" for the elite players. She will not get better in a place she where she sits in traffic almost seven days per week, doesn't play but a few minutes per week and misses out on the high school experience that you and I had while growing up. You cannot develop a player where the price of entry is $10,000 net dollars per year out your paycheck and in addition, quantify the time away from her school work, friends, clubs and becoming a credible multi-sport athlete. If you are new to ECNL / DA. .. remember when things go terribly wrong - you were warned. Have a great day! [/quote]
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