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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I just feel it's only right that I put this out there:  there is a lot of talk about how Bethenny can't keep friends.

My cousin grew up in Florida and became friends with Bethenny in the olden days.  They had children within a year of each other.  My cousin moved to NY in her mid 20's and was on her show a few times. [b] My cousin just moved back to South Florida a couple of years ago.[/b] They are still friends.  That's 25+ years of friendship.  [/quote]

They most likely are only still friends bevause they live far apart in different states. My MIL has similar tendencies as Bethany and the only friendships she can maintain are those she doesn’t have to see the friends on a regular daily basis.  Similar to Bethany she doesn’t have friends in her city or any friends she hangs out with on a regular basis. 
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I'm sort of like this too.  My best friends are those that I "left behind" when we transferred to a new state.  Or people nearby who I might only see every month or so.  Because we don't spend lots of time together, some might call our friendships superficial.  I see a lot of myself in Bethenny - sometimes it makes me cringe and other times makes me say right on!  I've tried to be introspective about my part in ruining close relationships and it usually boils down to flaws I can't look past.  I'm not a gossip, and sadly many intimate female relationships are held together by tearing someone else in the group apart.  I support someone 100% and am happy when they succeed, but I feel too many other women are resentful of someone else's success unless they're totally killing it in that area too.  (Not saying I don't get jealous, because I do.)  I'm sure I have my own flaws that friends are just willing to live with, but those things I mentioned are deal breakers for me, so after a while I have to leave the relationship or otherwise I end up hating them - and I really hate hating people.[/quote]

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