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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Man's answer here.  I think when you are fully clothed, alone with him and about to part company, tell him.  Tell him, "Dr. X, this is your professional setting, but I would like to have a drink with you some time."

Or whatever your version is.  The point is, be straight with him and don't put his hand someplace you shouldn't during a physical exam.  Don't put him in a situation that compromises him.  A straightforward invitation will not.  [/quote]

[quote]This is why no doctor EVER wants to be alone with a woman, even clothed. He says no; she flies into a rage and accuses him of harassment[/quote]; he now has unwanted career and legal trouble. And you know what, her advances in him at work ARE unwanted and ARE harassment.[/quote]

PP you're responding to here.  This is nuts.  I said to be straightforward.  A straightforward, sincere and respectful invitation to socialize is NOT harassment.

Women (and men) do not "fly into a rage" when they're turned down.  Women may do so only after they've been banged by the guy turning them away.  That's not the case here. [/quote]

"A straightforward, sincere and respectful invitation to socialize is NOT harassment." -- Yes it is. ANY unwelcome advance, no matter how "sincere and respectful" is harassment. And the target gets to decide what's welcome, sincere, and respectful, not the person making it.

"Women do not "fly into a rage" when they're turned down." -- LOL you're obviously a woman. Every man knows a woman who was filled with anger and spite after she got rejected, even if nothing happened. Women handle rejection [i]very poorly [/i]because they are not used to it.[/quote]

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