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Can't get good teammates out of this batch [/quote]
I agree! The people saying that is ok to play down and that college coaches wont care if your kid is playing on a grade down tean are ridiculious. Its scary thinking about the excuses they must be telling their kids.[/quote]

Kids are being compared to other kids in their graduating year.
That's how college's recruit.[/quote]
They're also being compared to transfer portal players. So its not just the players in their grade. There's also competition from players 1-3 maybe even 4 years older that are already playing in college.[/quote]

That makes grade even less relevant than it already is

Talent, potential and college start date is all that matters[/quote]
So you're theory is that because players are competing against other players 1-4 (maybe more) years older than they are for a college roster spot that somehow playing down againt younger players in high school will prepare them to play at a higher level.

You really think coaches wont notice that players are playing down a grade.[/quote]

Colleges don't recruit soccer players from High School 
What decade are you living in?

If you're a U16 playing U15, the only person you're fooling is yourself, because no College wants you.

You're calling a fact a theory.
If not talent, potential and graduating year, what are colleges looking at?[/quote]
Agree 1000%

Unfortunately there's a very persistent troll that monitors this thread  24/7 saying that playing on a grade down team isn't a big deal and that college coaches wont notice.

Now that details about SY are starting to come out from clubs its becoming more and more clear that they will group by grade within the 8/1-7/31 context. (ie younger players will be forced to play with their grade)[/quote]Multiple people aren't trolling when they are countering a disinformation campaign where one loud poster is saying that they want August kids playing up an age group  so their September born kid can be the oldest in their age group.

It is surprising that the person hasn't gotten another self centered parent of a September kid to join them but I guess even they realize that is a ridiculous fruitless effort to stump for a new rule on a random forum that doesn't make sense to anyone but the most self centered.[/quote]
You are the disinformation campaign.

You just dont realize it because your kid is likely a little or on a lower B/C team.[/quote]

You know your wrong, so you're going personal. So typical.[/quote]
How is pointing out that you're naive because you haven't been in a recruiting situation yet "going personal"?

You dont understand how things work once recruiting and college coaches are involved. You're trying to apply what you've learned attending tournamants and league games but its not the same game.

Instead of being a know it all. Step back, listen, and learn. [/quote]

No, I'm sharing what I know after talking to college coaches, club coaches and parents and it's far more complicated than how you present things here.[/quote]
Its only more complicated because you think players should be able to play on a grade down team. If you take away the loser thought processes recruiting becomes much easier. If your kid is playing up recruiting becomes much easier. If your kid is playing on a highly ranked team recruiting becomes much easier. [/quote]

Reaching the best team in your age group on a top league isn't a loser option. That's your blind spot.[/quote]
What are you talking about? Planet crazytown.[/quote]

Keep distracting. The club documentation so far agrees with me. These will be case-by-case decisions.[/quote]
Ok littles [/quote]

If they don't play on grade for just for littles, that would make sense because of RAE factors.[/quote]
Do you rip the bandaid off quickly or pull it off slowly? In the end the result is the same.

Most conpetitive clubs won't want to deal with accommodating edge cases. Which means they'll just group by grade from the beginning because its easiest.

I could see youngers tournament teams rostering grade up but eligible to play down Aug/Sept birthdays for wins. But this ends after 11v11 also at 11v11 is when a grade down player would need to start playing with their grade in school. This is because on the ECNL and other websites players graduating year is listed.[/quote]

Yes, ECNL do list their grad years and BY teams have multiple years. Jury out on next year with SY. In the meantime, 2 big clubs say it's case-by-case. If it was automatic, they'd say so, so to this point, you're just wrong.[/quote]
Just to be clear...

Because of BY you do see 2 graduating years on the ECNL website. The 2 that are listed are players playing their grade and players playing on a grade up team.

With SY you might also see 2 graduating years on the ECNL website. The two that will be listed are players playing their grade and players playing on a grade DOWN team.

It's humorous that you think ECNL will stop posting graduating year. If they stop posting it would be obvious that they're trying to hide players playing down from college coaches. If they leave it up college coaches will use it to avoid players playing down a grade. (trojan horses)[/quote]
Just because YOU have decided and repeat over and over again that players will be avoided does not make it a FACT. [/quote]
Ahh... Now I understand the disconnect. You dont understand that coaches dont think highly of players playing down in any sport since the beginning of time.

Playing down, redshirting, regrading whatever you want to call this type of cheating. Only works in High School because the level players aee playing at and their graduating year are in alignment. Likely because the kid was held back in school. Because of the 8/1-7/31 eligibility window you cant do this with club soccer. So it will be like a flashing light in the middle of the night that a player is playing down a grade. Which will make them unrecruitable.[/quote]So ridiculous and provably ridiculous. Hall of Fame college coaching careers were made off of Prop 48 and redshirting.[/quote]
Out come the private school parents and 16 year old freshman. [/quote] Nobody wants grade other then crazy August conspirator. It was said incorrectly that college coaches don't want older kids, they do.  So much so that they create them.[/quote]
So now you've dropped the mask and are openly endorsing redshirt/regrades/holdbacks. At least you're being honest. Please tell us more about that GY showcase idea you want so badly.[/quote]

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